Once again another "hurt feelings" case going to the HRC.
Activism and powerful lobbying has superseded the truth enabling, enforcing and effectively ratifying sexual & gender confusion,and subsequent mental & physical illnesses.
I hate to be cruel but this person frankly looks like a caricature,a grotesque representation of a woman and to have the Governor general avoid him/her would save all involved including this poor deluded soul much embarrassment.
Why Pride Became My Shame
From personal life experience this person is proudly on a misdirected vision, purposed to altering the outward physical appearance in pursuit of a perceived happiness.Taking steps to "gender congruency"not realizing the harm of the perceived remedy to internal gender confusion ,oblivious to the depth of deception,and deadly poison slowly steadily consuming one's soul.
Blinded to long term psychological and physical consequences,refusing to consider established medical evidence and the testimony from people who have been there. Not only destroying themselves but also loved ones in the process.
I began my gender journey almost 25 years ago, lived as a full time female for over 17 years,14 years post operatively and now legally considered a woman. Recently I have returned to my original given male name however because of my irreversible sex reassignment surgery I cannot alter the sex on my birth certificate even though I was born male therefore my health card and sex designation on my driver's license must remain as female .
Bluntly and straight forward my post operative life became an albatross,life's progress impeded by an increasingly amplified awkward true introverted self. Gender transition has resulted in being permanently trapped in surgical & hormonal drag.Surgically & hormonally altered, middle aged, incomplete and alone."Legally" female but in truth feeling like a counterfeit manufactured woman, a fugitive on the run everyday fearing shame, embarrassment and humiliation. Twisted like a pretzel still retaining my inferiority complexes and confusion
At times feeling like an animal snared in a hunters trap awaiting death to bring mercy. Blinded by own vanity seduced by myself,consumed by a worm with the venom of a pit viper that slowly subtly,and steadily filled my decieved soul with it's deadly poison. Tricked like the Venus Flytrap that captures it's prey using enticement,deception,and temptation,caught in it's inescapable evil net, a deadly trap that slowly devours the decieved soul.
Abbreviated Medical Research
"autogynephilia' "love of oneself as a woman" 1989 by Ray Blanchard, to refer to "a man's paraphilic tendency to be sexually aroused by the thought or image of himself as a woman." (The analogous term autoandrophilia refers to a woman's tendency to be sexually aroused by the thought or image of herself as a man.)
Sander Breiner, M.D.Member, NARTH Scientific Advisory Committee in Transsexuality Explained-" disturbed body image was not an organic at all, but was strictly a psychological problem. It could not be solved by organic manipulation (surgery, hormones), no matter how well-intentioned or brilliantly successful it was done.
However, when an adult who is normal in appearance and functioning believes there is something ugly or defective in their appearance that needs to be changed, it is clear that there is a psychological problem of some significance.
The more pervasive and extensive is this misperception of oneself, the more significant is the psychological problem. The more the patient is willing to do extensive surgical intervention (especially when it is destructive), the more serious is the psychological problem.
Paul McHugh. "Surgical Sex." First Things 147 (November 2004): 34-38.
- psychiatrist and psychoanalyst Jon Meyer was already developing a means of following up with adults who received sex-change operations at Hopkins in order to see how much the surgery had helped them. He found that most of the patients he tracked down some years after their surgery were contented with what they had done and that only a few regretted it. But in every other respect, they were little changed in their psychological condition. They had much the same problems with relationships, work, and emotions as before. The hope that they would emerge now from their emotional difficulties to flourish psychologically had not been fulfilled.
Further study of similar subjects in the psychiatric services of the Clark Institute in Toronto identified these men by the auto-arousal they experienced in imitating sexually seductive females. Many of them imagined that their displays might be sexually arousing to onlookers, especially to females. This idea, a form of "sex in the head" (D. H. Lawrence), was what provoked their first adventure in dressing up in women's undergarments and had eventually led them toward the surgical option. Once again I concluded that to provide a surgical alteration to the body of these unfortunate people was to collaborate with a mental disorder rather than to treat it. I have witnessed a great deal of damage from sex-reassignment. The children transformed from their male constitution into female roles suffered prolonged distress and misery as they sensed their natural attitudes. We have wasted scientific and technical resources and damaged our professional credibility by collaborating with madness rather than trying to study, cure, and ultimately prevent it.
How can a person alter their naturally born biological sex through hormonal and surgical alteration and expect to live a happy healthy life? Had I not discarded God's words rebelling against truth and biological reality and sought to remedy my crossdressing, transsexualism and resulting gender identity confusion rather than reinforce it perhaps I might be living a happier healthy life.
If I could talk to this person I would beg him/her to please heed this warning before doing self and loved ones irreparable harm.I fear my experience is not the exception but the norm My transition was enabled by being a member of a large and powerful public sector union.I was on a union human rights committee as an "equity seeking" individual. Public sector unions have won the right to teach the fluidity of gender to your children as a natural and harmless variation of human sexuality. IT IS NOT Gender isn't malleable I hope readers will heed my warning.
(Article was adapted and condensed from my writings "Why Pride is My Shame"for Help4Families a Christian ministry for individuals and loved ones struggling with personal or affected by gender identity disorder)